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Rocio grew up on the U.S.-Mexican border as the youngest of five children. After later having a child of her own, she began attending Plano Family Literacy School (PFLS), a local partner of the National Center for Families Learning (NCFL). There, Rocio continued her own education while learning how to become more involved in her children’s schooling as well. She was invited to share her family literacy story at the 2018 Families Learning Conference.

After leaving her village in northern Mexico for Dallas, Texas, Rocio struggled with transitioning to life in the U.S. Once she found the Plano Family Literacy School (PLFS), however, everything changed for the better – both for her and her children.

Growing up in the tiny Mexican village of San Jeronimo de Sauces in the northern state of Zapatecas, Rocio had a burning desire to read anything she could get her hands on; unfortunately, there was no library in her village. She remembered having access to a single book in her home: a thick Bible, with a red-wine colored cover and thin pages.

“When I learned to read, I devoted myself to any book I could find. I wished I could have [had] access to more children's books,” she recalled.

Living with her mother and four siblings in an adobe home with a kitchen and three bedrooms, Rocio experienced good times with her family in San Jeronimo de Sauces, but daily struggles as well. Since her father worked on long-term construction projects in the U.S. and was gone for months at a time, her mother did her best to take care of the five children. Rocio remembers particular times of scarcity, especially as it related to meals.

“It was a constant struggle for my mom to provide healthy food for us,” said Rocio. “We only ate meat two or three times a year, and we didn’t have access to many vegetables and fruits at that time.”

From afar, Rocio’s father encouraged his children to pursue education, a fairly rare sentiment in a place where many children did not continue with schooling beyond twelve years of age. Though her siblings chose a different path, Rocio was eager to learn. With her father’s blessing, she defied the norm.

“I didn’t want to stop; I wanted to keep going,” she said, and walked 30 minutes each way to the secondary school in San Antonio del Cerrito. Despite these efforts, her educational journey was eventually postponed. After marrying her boyfriend Pascual at age 19, Rocio and her new husband moved to Dallas in order for him to gain employment in the construction industry.

Upon arriving in Dallas in 1994, the couple moved into a modern apartment rented by his siblings. Though the beauty of illuminated buildings reaching towards the sky in downtown Dallas provided a sharp contrast to candlelit evenings in San Jeronimo de Sauces, Rocio soon found herself overwhelmed and lonely. Pregnant with her first son, she couldn’t speak English and was unable to recommit to her own education.

“I didn't know how to drive. I didn't know how to speak the language,” she recalled. “I wanted to go to school, and I couldn't.”

Once her son was born, changing her circumstances seemed to become more difficult than ever.

“I had a newborn to take care of and money was scarce,” she said. “I knew some churches offered English classes, but I couldn’t go because I had no one to take care of my baby. I remember praying and wondering if somewhere, there was a program or school where my baby could go with me.”

Years passed, and in 2000, Rocio and her husband purchased a home in nearby Plano. Rocio’s brother had told her the area was home to high-quality schools; at this point, the couple had two children with a third on the way.

Soon after she moved, Rocio learned about the Plano Family Literacy School (PFLS), a local partner of the National Center for Families Learning (NCFL). The school offers evidence-based, two-generation interactive literacy activities for parents and their children. Rocio was able to attend with all three of her children.

Rocio with her children (clockwise from top left), Emily, Heidi, Kim, and Kevin.

“It was perfect. I mean, I couldn't ask for anything else,” said Rocio. “I had the opportunity to receive English language instruction and the peace of mind that my children were taken care of. Not only that, [but] they were learning basic skills that prepared them to go to public school.” 

Rocio participated in NCFL’s Parent and Child Together (PACT) TimeⓇ  for four hours a week.

“I learned to talk with [my children]; to sit and play with them more often,” she said, adding that through programming and activities, she also learned about positively engaging in her children’s school. “I learned about the importance of meeting the teachers of my kids, attending parent-teacher conferences, and volunteering at school.” Confidently, she began to navigate the school system.

Before learning how to advocate for her children’s education and productively support their schooling, Rocio said she had only a vague understanding of how to go about being her children’s first and most important teacher.

“I would say, ‘You have to go to school. You have to be successful. You have to graduate. You have to do this and this and that,’” she said. “But I didn't really focus on one task at a time. It’s learning how to address and work on smaller goals, like helping with homework projects, that can lead to conversations about college being a reality.”

Rocio eventually honed her English and academic skills and earned her GED®.

In 2003, she was offered a position as an Early Childhood Assistant at PFLS, her first job since arriving in the U.S. Securing the position made Rocio feel that she was contributing to the economy, giving back to the program that supported her, and as a bonus, she worked under the same roof as her children.

“If I had gone to work somewhere else, I wouldn't be able to stay with my children and see them and guide them,” she said.

Rocio also modeled advanced academic attainment for her family, enrolling at Collin Community College in the summer of 2009. Being back in a traditional classroom wasn’t easy. She recalled the first day of her English rhetoric course.

“It was a frightening moment. On the first day of class, I sat in the last row. I was very nervous,” she said. “I felt intimidated for a long time,” but her comfort level and confidence steadily grew. Rocio received her Associate of Arts in Education in 2013.

Today, Rocio’s children are thriving. Her oldest son Kevin, 24, just finished an enlistment with the U.S. Marine Corps. Her daughter Kim, 21, is a junior biology major at the University of Texas, Dallas. Emily, 17, is a senior in high school exploring options for college, and her youngest, Heidi, is an 8th grader who loves theatre and is very involved in school.

“From my personal experience, I completely see how families can change their fate when they get an education. I have witnessed in my own children how education creates positive change,” she said.

Rocio speaking at the 2018 Families Learning Conference.

In the fall of 2018, Rocio was invited to share her inspiring journey at NCFL’s annual conference in Fort Lauderdale. As she told her story to a filled ballroom, she reflected on her own journey – from San Jeronimo de Sauces to Dallas to Plano, and to her home-away-from-home at the Plano Family Literacy School.

“Without [family literacy], I wouldn't be able to be here today,” she said. “I compare myself to people from the same village, and they're hard workers. They are people who work hard and they love their children too, but they didn't have opportunities I did. That made the difference for me and my family.”

November is National Family Literacy Month®, a time when we celebrate families who are working to better their lives and the tireless efforts of those working in family literacy and family-focused programs. On Fridays in November, we're sharing an inspirational story of an adult learner who has participated in an NCFL family literacy program. 


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Toyota Family Learning Program

Toyota, one of the nation's most successful corporations, began a partnership with NCFL in 1991. In addition to a commitment of more than $50 million, Toyota has also contributed a wealth of in-kind support — including advertising, planning and management expertise — to form one of the most progressive corporate/nonprofit partnerships in the nation.

Three major programs have been developed through the Toyota partnership based on the family literacy model of parents and children learning together. These models have influenced federal and state legislation, leveraged local dollars to support family literacy and led to successful programs being replicated across the country.

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Dollar General Literacy Foundation

The Dollar General Literacy Foundation began partnering with NCFL in 2006. A signature effort of this partnership is the National Literacy Directory, a resource that launched in 2010 and strives to reach the 35.7 million adults ages 18-64 who do not have a high school diploma by guiding them to better-paying, more stable jobs.

The National Literacy Directory contains over 10,000 educational agencies located across the United States and has a dedicated toll-free number to help support those wanting to pursue educational opportunities in their communities.

Dollar General also provides support for development of NCFL’s innovative family learning resources centered on financial literacy and Parent and Child Together (PACT) Time®.

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PNC Grow Up Great

PNC Grow Up Great believes deeply in the power of high-quality early childhood education and provides innovative opportunities that assist families, educators and community organizations to enhance children's learning and development.

PNC Grow Up Great has partnered with NCFL since 1994 to advance early literacy and learning resources for vulnerable families. Current efforts supported by PNC include a collaborative initiative in two at-risk Detroit communities that engages families to support vocabulary development for children under age 5.

NCFL's work is also featured on the PNC Grow Up Great Lesson Center website. The Lesson Center includes over 100 free, high-quality preschool lesson plans and research-based instructional techniques and strategies. All lesson plans contain Home/School Connections printouts, in English and Spanish, to help families extend and reinforce the learning at home.

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W.K. Kellogg Foundation

NCFL has partnered with the W.K. Kellogg Foundation since January 2016. The Foundation is currently supporting a dynamic two-generation family engagement initiative that expands NCFL's Family Learning model into select Head Start programs nationwide. NCFL's model presents an innovative way to support Head Start programs in meeting outcomes aligned with the Parent, Family, and Community Engagement Framework.

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Better World Books

Better World Books selected NCFL as its domestic literacy partner in 2005 and has raised more than $1 million to support NCFL’s work and donated more than $15 million to support literacy and education efforts worldwide. Better World Books is a triple-bottom-line online bookstore, working equally for people, planet and profit. Each book purchased powers literacy across the world.

Better World Books’ support of NCFL has provided books and workshops to families after Hurricane Katrina, donated large book donations to literacy programs and families nationwide and fueled innovative family literacy and learning programs and resources in libraries, schools and community-based organizations. In addition to their work for literacy and education, Better World Books diverts books from landfills and offers carbon-balanced shipping.

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Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation

In 2013, NCFL began a partnership with the Gates Foundation to ensure that our network of students, teachers, and families thrive among recent shifts in standards-based education. NCFL will leverage the unique strengths of our award-winning Wonderopolis® platform to build upon the growing teacher network that uses the resource for core daily instruction and as a basis for professional growth.

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Goodling Institute

NCFL has partnered with the Goodling Institute for Research and Family Literacy at Penn State University since 2001, working collaboratively to further research, professional development, and policy efforts for family literacy and intergenerational learning.

The work of this partnership includes, but is not limited to, a strong research strand at NCFL's national annual convening, the Families Learning Summit; advocacy for family literacy and learning to further support for and inclusion of family-focused education in new and ongoing legislation; and dissemination of the latest research, resources, information, and professional development opportunities for literacy and learning practitioners and advocates, including the Certificate in Family Literacy provided by the Goodling Institute.

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